Their life. Their voice. One beautiful book.

Call your loved one whenever the moment feels right and let Shared Lives guide you with thoughtful questions and follow-ups. Children and grandchildren can lead every conversation themselves, or use the included AI interviewer to call at a chosen time — it’s free and entirely optional. Across 8, 12, 26 or 52 themed weeks, their words and your chosen photos become an illustrated Life Book.

Create their Life Book — £79

Choose 8, 12, 26 or 52 weeks · Calls stop when the book is complete · Download included

A grandmother laughing in her armchair, a speech bubble with a sound wave rising from her

You know their laugh, their Sunday roast, their opinions on the neighbours. But how well do you know the person behind all the familiar things?

The street where they grew up. Who they were at nineteen. The risks they took, the trials they faced, and the people and places that changed them.

A whole life shaped them into the person you love today — and most of that journey never comes up over dinner.

Get closer. Ask about the road that brought them here.

Closer, one conversation at a time

Discover the life behind the person you love.

Children and grandchildren can call anytime, with AI prompts quietly guiding what to ask next. Or, when life is busy, the included optional AI interviewer can make the call. Either way, each conversation travels from childhood and home through trials, turning points and triumphs.

A granddaughter and her grandmother smiling as they speak on the phone from their homes
From granddaughter to grandmother: where she grew up, who she dreamed of becoming, and the journey in between.
An older father and his adult son smiling as they speak on the phone from their homes
From son to father: the trials he weathered, the choices he made, and what shaped the man he became.
“What was the place you grew up like?”

It starts with a call from someone she loves.

Her daughter can call anytime, with Shared Lives suggesting the next thoughtful question and useful follow-ups as they talk. If the family prefers, the included AI interviewer can make the call instead at a chosen time — always optional, never an extra cost.

+ Ask Granny a question “What was your first car?”

Then the whole family joins the conversation.

Five family seats are included. Anyone can follow along, react, and send Granny the questions they’ve always wondered about. And it remembers — next week’s call picks up right where the Locarno dance left off.

Where I grew up Meeting Arthur 1974 — the move to Leeds Advice for the grandkids Her wishes — safely kept

Week by week, her Life Book takes shape.

Each theme becomes a written chapter, illustrated with the family photos you choose. Every chapter has its own QR code, so readers can hear her original recordings and revisit the photos and videos behind the story.

Margaret’s Top Ten Albums 1. Abbey Road “your father proposed to this” 2. Blue — Joni Mitchell “got me through ’74” 3. Rumours “every word true” 4. … the argument continues

And the colour in between the chapters.

Her top ten albums, films, proudest moments — with the whys behind every one. The small things that turn a timeline into a person, shared with the family and argued over at Sunday lunch.

Know where they came from. Hear what they came through. Hold the whole journey in your hands.

Create their Life Book — £79

How it works

  1. Choose the length of their journey.

    Pick 8, 12, 26 or 52 themed weeks for the same £79. Tell us a little about their world, invite the children and grandchildren, and decide whether family will call anytime or the free optional AI interviewer will call at a chosen time.

  2. Call anytime. We’ll guide the conversation.

    Children and grandchildren can call whenever it suits everyone, with prompts for the week’s theme and intelligent follow-up questions as they talk. Prefer a little help? The AI interviewer is included free and can call them at your chosen time — entirely optional.

  3. Receive their finished Life Book.

    After the final week, new prompts and optional AI interviewer calls stop. Download the illustrated book, complete with chapter QR codes linking to their voice, photos and videos — or order a lasting printed copy.

One complete life-book journey · £79

How much of their story would you like to explore?

Choose the pace that suits them. Each week unlocks a new theme and guided questions for family-led calls at any time. The included AI interviewer can make the call instead if wanted. After the final week, new prompts and AI interviewer calls stop and the finished book is prepared.

12 weeks of guided conversations. Family can call anytime, or the free optional AI interviewer can call for them. Twelve themes become twelve chapters.

The recommended 12-week journey

A life, opened chapter by chapter.

Every theme comes with considered prompts for children and grandchildren to use naturally. During family-led calls, Shared Lives suggests follow-ups; during optional interviewer-led calls, the AI asks them aloud and listens for names, places and turning points.

  1. Week 1Roots & childhood

    The home, family and neighbourhood that first shaped them.

  2. Week 2School days

    Teachers, friendships, mischief and the lessons that stayed.

  3. Week 3Teenage years

    Music, freedom, first risks and who they hoped to become.

  4. Week 4First loves

    The butterflies, heartbreaks and relationships they remember.

  5. Week 5First job

    The first wage packet, workplace characters and lessons learned.

  6. Week 6Finding a path

    The choices, chances and changes that set their direction.

  7. Week 7Marriage or partnership

    How they met, why it mattered and the promise they made.

  8. Week 8Early married life

    Making a home, stretching a budget and building life together.

  9. Week 9Life with children

    The chaos, joy, worry and family moments they treasure.

  10. Week 10Trials & turning points

    The hard seasons, brave decisions and strength they discovered.

  11. Week 11Proudest moments

    The achievements and quiet victories that meant the most.

  12. Week 12Lessons & legacy

    What life taught them and what they want the family to carry.

Some of the best conversations of your life haven’t happened yet. Shared Lives’s whole job is to start them.

  • Built in the UK
  • No apps, no screens — she just answers the phone
  • Designed for age 60+, guided every step
  • Every recorded call starts by asking their permission
  • Your finished book and media archive are yours to download

Without it

The picture stays half-painted. Half a tale at Christmas, a name on the back of a photo nobody can place — and a person you loved but never quite got to know.

With Shared Lives

  • A complete, illustrated book of where they came from.
  • The trials, triumphs and turning points in their own words.
  • QR codes that let every chapter speak in their voice.
  • A keepsake the family can download, share and hold for generations.

Not ready? Steal our questions.

Get “30 questions that show you who your mum really is” — free, by email.

Your family’s memories shouldn’t depend on an app.

Downloaded when the journey ends.

After the final week, download the complete illustrated book and its media archive. The words, recordings and family-selected images are yours, never trapped with us.

We keep pointers, never documents.

Shared Lives records where the will is and who to call — it never stores the will itself. Try to upload one and we’ll politely refuse.

A promise about the future.

If Shared Lives ever winds down, every family gets 12 months’ notice and their complete book and media archive. We built this after watching another company strand people’s recordings. Never again — not on our watch.

The Shared Lives Life Book

£79complete programme

  • Your choice of 8, 12, 26 or 52 weeks of guided conversations
  • Prompts and thoughtful follow-up questions for family-led calls anytime
  • A free optional AI interviewer that can call at a chosen time
  • A written, illustrated chapter from each focus area
  • Family-selected photos and optional videos throughout
  • QR codes linking each chapter to its recordings and media
  • The completed digital Life Book and media archive to download
  • New prompts and optional AI interviewer calls stop after the final week
Create their Life Book — £79

One clear price for every programme length. The downloadable book is included.

Questions, answered plainly

Who makes the calls?

You choose. Children and grandchildren can call their loved one anytime and use Shared Lives prompts to guide the conversation. Or the included AI interviewer can call them at a chosen time. The AI interviewer is free with every programme and entirely optional.

What if they’re not “techy”?

That’s fine. Family-led conversations happen on an ordinary phone call, with prompts shown to the family member asking the questions. If you choose the optional AI interviewer, your loved one simply answers their own telephone — landline or mobile — with no app, login or screen.

How do I choose between 8, 12, 26 and 52 weeks?

Choose the pace and depth that will feel comfortable for them. Eight weeks captures the essential eras; 12 weeks follows our recommended chapter arc; 26 and 52 weeks give memories more room to unfold. Every option costs £79.

What happens after the final week?

New weekly prompts stop, and any scheduled AI interviewer calls end automatically. We finish shaping the family-led and interviewer-led recordings into chapters and prepare the illustrated Life Book and media archive for download. There is no rolling interview subscription.

Are the questions scripted?

Each week has a clear life theme and carefully designed prompts, but the conversation is not a questionnaire. On family-led calls, children and grandchildren see suggested follow-ups as the story unfolds. If you use the optional AI interviewer, it asks those questions naturally aloud.

Can we choose the photos and videos?

Yes. The family selects the images that illustrate each chapter and can add relevant video where available. Shared Lives brings the words and media together; you keep control of the family material.

What do the chapter QR codes open?

Each QR code links to that chapter’s original voice recordings and its selected photos and videos. Someone reading the book can scan a chapter and hear the storyteller behind the words.

Is the finished book ours?

Yes. The downloadable Life Book and its media archive are included in the £79 programme and belong to your family. You can save, share and keep them independently of Shared Lives.

Can we order a printed book?

Yes. Once the digital book is ready, an A5 full-colour hardback is £39.99 and a full-colour paperback is £24.99. Both retain the chapter QR codes linking to recordings and media.

Does she know it’s recorded?

Always. Whether family makes the call or the optional AI interviewer does, the conversation begins with a clear recording notice and spoken permission. They can pause or stop any time and decide what is kept.

Who can see what she shares?

She decides, plainly: just her, family only, or everyone she invites. Her wishes go only to the people she names. No surprises — that’s a rule.

Can I gift it for a specific day?

Yes — after checkout you’ll get a beautiful QR code to print and put inside their card. Together, the family can choose the programme length and begin a guided call whenever they like. If wanted, they can also choose the included AI interviewer and a time for it to make the call.

Turn the life they lived into the book your family keeps.

Create their Life Book — £79

Choose 8, 12, 26 or 52 weeks · digital book included · printed copies optional